When you have lost someone, facing the holidays is overwhelming. When my son Eric died, I dreaded the holidays – I tried to avoid them altogether. When we are bereaved by suicide, substance, or other forms of self-harm, the holidays are overshadowed by an intense...
You’ve recently lost a loved one, and the holidays are just around the corner. Typically, this is a time filled with excitement and joy, but you’re finding it harder to feel the holiday spirit this time around. When you lose someone special, your life feels like it’s...
After the death of my son, my first questions were “Where is he now?” “Is he OK?” After talking with my priest and spiritual director, I realized that Eric was perfect now – his best self. I began to ponder the ideas of an afterlife, eternal life, and Heaven. I...
I’d like to share a little story with you: ‘A man who had lost his son to a fentanyl overdose 4 weeks earlier, on his own initiative, found us on the Internet and sought us out to see if we could help him deal with his grief.’ That’s it, that’s my story. It’s true,...
I recently reviewed Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk’s bestselling book, The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma, and found myself connecting his words to our EricsHouse clients. Although grief is very personal and everyone experiences it in a...
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